Want what
you can’t have?
Or can’t have yet?

A hand holding a phone, writing an IF to someone in a relationship.

Wait for it on IF

Send an IF

Send a hidden message to someone you can’t stop thinking about — on IF or by email, phone, or @.

The IF app showing a profile with a hidden message being sent to her.

It stays hidden

Your identity and message stay completely hidden until the time is right and you choose to reveal them.

A received IF in the IF app, with the sender's name and message still hidden.

It only opens IF…

Whatever your status, whatever theirs, your IF waits until you’re both single.

…you become single
You
In a relationshipSingle
Them
Single
…they become single
You
Single
Them
In a relationshipSingle
…you both become single
You
In a relationshipSingle
Them
In a relationshipSingle

And you control
the reveal

Every reveal waits. If you become single last, change your status. If they do, approve within 24 hours.

Changing your relationship status to single in the IF app.
A sent IF with the reveal window counting down and a Reveal button.

So set your
priorities

Apply your filters, rank them by importance, then split them into needs and wants.

The IF app's discovery filters, ranked and split into needs and wants.

And find
your person

Search for someone specific by email, phone, or @ or swipe through singles and people in relationships.

Searching for someone by email, phone or handle in the IF app.
Swiping through profiles in the IF app, showing each person's relationship status.

And once
you do

Unlimited chats, but in the end, only one chat matters.

The IF app's chat list.
An open conversation in the IF app.

Make it
IF official

Update your status. Clear your slate. Keep your account, though, so IFs can still find you — just in case.

Updating your relationship status to in a relationship in the IF app.

Start for free,
anywhere you want.